Learn to be organized.
Don't just let the days happen, plan activities and share your day's
events with your employers through brief written progress reports.
Communicate with
your employers. This is one of the most important and most
difficult things to promote but it is essential in a successful
relationship with your employers. If you are unsure how to handle
a specific issue, ask some fellow nannies for advice. But make sure when
you talk to your employers you are respectful and calm. Follow the
golden rule to do unto others as you would have done unto you. Try to
see an issue from both sides.
Set a good example for
your charges. Keep your environment tidy, your appearance
respectable. Act like a professional and you will be treated as
such.
Join the National
Association of Nannies. You will find infinite support and wisdom
through this organization. Go to www.NannyAssociation.com
Should I go through an Agency or
not?
Yes,
definitely. However, be prepared to wait until you get what you want. Be
picky and choosy. You have to deal w/ a potential family on a very
intimate level so the right match is very important. Don't do it for the
money, do it because you genuinely like the family. Make sure that
you agree w/ them on different levels such as discipline issues.
Agencies
are a good way to start. I wish I had known about them when I first
started nannying. Check out the agency thoroughly first. Ask if you can
talk to other nannies that have gone through the agency. See if they
only work with specific areas. A good agency will not make YOU (the
nanny) pay for any services/fees/etc. See how thorough they are when
interviewing you. If they just want name, rank and serial number, that
should be a warning sign.
Yes.
You have to be careful with them, because they will have other
priorities than just Nanny, but the extra buffer they provide in dealing
with the families first, provides a little bit of a screening process
that you won't have to do. By no means should you consider them a
complete safety mechanism, because they are helping the families also,
and sometimes do not perform all background checks on either family OR
nanny.
I own a nanny agency. I think that
you should apply with different ones. Why not. You are looking for a
job. If they want to prevent you from signing up with other agencies
then there is a RED flag. We personally do not have our nannies stay
with us for any period of time. When they are done with a job, they
usually call us. As far as obligations-Be careful what you sign. Loyalty
is a big thing with me. Meaning that if I was to refer a nanny to the
job...if the family offers her *something* not to tell me that they have
hired her. I feel that the nanny should tell me because the family is
trying to cheat us out of the fee that they agreed to before I sent the
nanny.
If I don't go through an agency,
do I need a background check on myself?
I
think that this is unnecessary. Some states such as California have a
registry that you can join (Trustline) for a fee of $80. I would think
that having sufficient references such as 3 previous jobs and 2 or 3
personal references would be ideal. Also provide a DMV printout, a copy
of your drivers' license and social security number. You can also get
your fingerprints done to add an extra incentive to give the parents
more trust.
If you don't go
through an agency (and even if you do) be prepared to have a resume of
sorts listing prior childcare experience and valid references. These
should be previous employers as well as some personal. Have a driving
record that is CURRENT from the DMV. I do not know about background
checks, but I do know that local police stations will do fingerprinting
for a small fee or for free. Also, in CA you can be registered under
TRUSTLINE which does a background check for you. I don't have the number
on me, but I believe it is an 800 number.
I
am not sure that they would respect a background check that originated
from your files, but they are most certainly sure to trust something
that they obtain for themselves or from an agency. Doing a background
check and financial search on yourself will provide peace of mind for
you, in knowing what the computers will reveal, but you should also
include the information about how they could obtain this information
independently, should they wish to do so.
Should I be a live-in or a
live-out Nanny?
This
depends on you personally. If you are 18 and used to living in a
structured, secure environment of your parents home, perhaps this is the
best route. I also think that this is preferable when moving to a new
area where you may know no one. There are a lot of benefits to living
in: free room, generally a car, and usually home cooked meals. The
benefits of living out is that you usually make more money and you can
fully leave your job when you are off.
If
you feel the need for complete privacy, you will need separate quarters
that some families do not provide. Nanny Quarters are about a quarter of
the job's total attractiveness for me... since I spend a lot of my free
individual time in them. The privacy benefits both Nanny and Family.
Live-out Nannies make more money, and sometimes it is worth losing most
of your income towards providing and being responsible for that separate
housing, just to have the security of not losing your residence with
your job each time.
Being a live in
or a live out depends on lots of things. Living in means always being
around your employers, even on the off hours. There is a loss of some
privacy, but at the same time, it is room and board and there is no need
to worry about commuting/paying rent. If you are moving to a new area
and don't know it well or anyone there and have the chance of being a
live in, go for it. I became a live out when it got hard for me to be at
my job 24/7. Since then, I have been a live out and not had a problem.
Some need that separation from work and regular life. You really have to
observe yourself and see what situation would work better for you.
How do I know what I should be
paid?
I
wish the agency would be up front about the solid facts of what your
closest geographical peers are making. I wish the families would tell
you what their last nanny was paid; if they are open and reasonable
about giving their considerations along with their salary offer, they
will be worth working for, even if their offer is a low one.
Most
entry level nannies make between $300-400 depending on the area you are
in. Experienced nannies have been known to make over $1000 a week.
Pay is another
issue that differs from state to state. It even differs from city to
city. Talk to agencies in the areas. If possible, talk to other nannies.
Don't expect to go in with little or no experience and make top dollar.
It is just like any other job. You work your way up. The internet is
full of nanny support groups/message boards/web sites for you to ask
your questions to as well.
Here's a great
resource. The International Nanny Association just conducted a Nanny
Salary Survey. You can check out the results by clicking here: http://www.nanny.org/INA_Salary_Survey2.pdf
What Questions
should I ask a potential employer?
Here is a list of question put
together by the Board of Directors of the National Association of
Nannies.
Interview
Questions
Is this a live in or live out
position?
How many children, and what ages?
What are the hours?
Are the hours flexible or does 8-6 mean 8-6?
Are there other adults living in the home besides the parents?
Will I be expected to work weekends?
Do you travel?
Will I be expected to travel with you?
Will I be expected to stay with the children while you travel?
What is your description of the "ideal nanny"?
Define your idea of the nanny's role in the family.
What are the duties?
Laundry ? (for children)
Who plans the meals, cooks and shops for groceries?
Who purchases the children's clothes, toys, supplies?
Do you work outside the home or out of your home?
If the parents work at home, you need to set up some guidelines for how
to handle things when you are there, and they are too.
What religion are they and how do you expect your nanny to participate
in the child's Religious teaching?
Is there other household help?
Who supervises them?
Will I be expected to take the children to doctor appointments, music
lessons, classes, etc.?
Will I be expected to use my own car?
If yes, who will pay costs for Insurance, maintenance and gas?
How will we handle vacation time?
May I take it at my choice of times, or when you take yours?
Make a point of finding out whether or not you will be paid for
unexpected days off. (Example: Grandparents come to town and parents
give you the week off)
Explain that this is your profession and your livelihood and that you
count on your paycheck to live. Paid Holidays?
Work holidays?
Weekly pay?
Salary or hourly?
Taxes?
Health insurance?
Retirement benefits? IRA?
Childcare related classes and conferences?
If I agree to work x number of hours a week for x amount of pay, do I
get paid extra for any time over that amount?
What about pay for 24 hour duty?
What if I am sick?
Do I get sick pay?
What is your back up plan if I am sick?
Do you see this as a long-term position?
Do you anticipate moving in the near future?
Do you have pets?
What are your household rules?
Do the children or the parents have allergies I should be aware of?
Special dietary needs?
What is your discipline philosophy?
What values do you want taught and re-enforced in your children?
I would like to have an opportunity to spend some time with your
children before I make my final decision, is that ok with you?
Are you willing to sign a work agreement with me that includes a 90-day
trial period?
Communication is very important for nannies and employers. Are you
willing to meet with me on a regular basis so that we can discuss how
things are going? Will I receive an evaluation from you and raises on a
yearly or BI- yearly basis?
This is my job, I am very serious about it, and I count on my paycheck
to live. I need full-time work and full time pay.
What is your position on videotaping?
These
interview questions were compiled by the Board of Directors of the National
Association of Nannies and appear here with their permission.